Dora the Potty-Trainer

Maggie was two-and-a-half yesterday. She got “big girl underwears” from Santa almost four months ago. She is not wearing them.

Since she is my third child, I have been thinking: wait until she’s ready, and it’ll take two days. Start before she’s ready, and it will take… until she’s ready.

Still, two-and-a-half seems like a good age to get one’s potty act together, does it not? So I have started the gentle and positive reminders. Unfortunately, Maggie seems to be moving quickly in the opposite direction.

Yesterday morning, when Maggie arose and asked for her morning Dora fix:

MOMMY: Maggie, I have an idea? Why don’t I get the potty–
MAGGIE: No!
MOMMY: –and you can sit–
MAGGIE: No!
MOMMY: Look, you can sit right here on your potty and watch Dora at the same time!
MAGGIE: NOOO!
MOMMY: (quickly lowering my standards) How about you sit on it with your diaper on, wouldn’t that–
MAGGIE: NOOOOOOOOO!

I was beaten into submission.

MOMMY: OK, Maggie. Maybe another day.

I went to put the potty away.

MAGGIE: Wait. Mommy, you put the potty right there.

I turned, delighted.

MOMMY: Are you going to sit on it like a big girl?

MAGGIE: No, I not sit on it. But when Dora looks out… her will see it.

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Paola April 21, 2010 at 4:30 pm

My son was potty trained day and night at 20 months. My daughter turned 5 in March and I still have to remind her to go, and she still wears pull-ups at night. And they say girls are easier to train than boys…Ha
Bottom line: keep on bringing the topic, insist on it, try to take her to the washroom instead of a potty, let her see her brothers or you go…She will get it eventually!

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